There is no room for secrets in marriage. Secrets corrode trust. Secrets destroy marriages. Every secret that you keep from your spouse, regardless of how small it is, is taking away from your marriage. Remember nothing stays secret. The same Devil who assures you that you’ll never be caught is the same Devil who will blow the whistle on you. Your spouse shouldn't have to become a detective, investigator or secret service agent. Give your spouse open access to your entire personal life. Don’t take your spouse’s trust for granted. Successful marriages are built on trust. It takes years to build trust; it takes a single secret to destroy it; and it takes sincere apologies and a whole lifetime of proven honest living to restore and repair it. Respect your spouse and honor your commitment. Live an honorable, open and honest life.