11 Painful Things 1. Bringing back the feeling you've learned to forget. 2. Reminiscing the good times. 3. Trying to hide what you really feel. 4. Loving someone who loves another. 5. Having a commitment with someone you know would not last. 6. Shielding your heart to love somebody. 7. Loving a person too much. 8. Right love at a wrong time. 9. Taking risk to fall in love again. 10. Accepting that it was never meant to be. 11. "What ifs"

Love is forgiving, accepting, moving on, embracing, and all encompassing. And if you’re not doing that for yourself, you cannot do that with anyone else.

If you didn't love him, this never would have happened. But you did. And accepting that love and everything that followed it is part of letting it go.